Sunday, April 15, 2007
You Are an Asshole
Does anyone ever find it hard to tell someone about themselves?? Even when we get into fights we're told name-calling is severely out of the question. Don't even go there. But is that a bad idea? If someone is being an asshole or a b***h, should you tell them? And does any good of telling someone something like that?
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No, i think it can be used if its needed. Im not against telling someone how it is. I mean if its your friend then i would say, um.. im your friend but right now your being a ass, a bitch, what ever you want to call them. I think sometimes this is a must because its really the only way for people to understand how you feel. Although lets try to be nice to people for the most part. Dont call someone a ass for something stupid or for a bad reason. Use it when its needed.
I think honesty is one of the most important human characteristics. Honesty can sometimes get you into trouble, but I hate liars. If you feel a certain way about someone, either tell them or deal with them, but don't act like you like someone if you don't. I understand this can sometimes be difficult in a work or job setting, but I'm a very blunt person and yes, I run my mouth and it has gotten me into trouble. But I think people respect me because they know I'm honest and they never have to second-guess what I'm saying to them.
I absoluty think that you shoud tell them. I am very open with my feelings and like to be very blunt and to the point. I think it beneficail to tell someone if they're being a bitch or an asshole cuz then maybe they'll stop.
I feel that you should be straight with people and should be able to tell the truth to their face. If you do not do that then the feelings will build up. Letting out anger or the truth is necessary to carrying along true relationships and conversations.
I think if it's appropriate for the situation, then yes. But, there are more usefull and beneficial ways to get your point across then calling someone an asshole. People tend to feel like they should act that way more to make you angrier for calling them out. But sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do to get your point across.
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