Girl, Guy, Guy, Girl

Guys: when you need to talk about something do you seek out a girl or a guy? Or do you seek out a specific gender based off of what you need to talk about? Please explain (please!)

Girls: Do you find guys or girls are more emotional when you need to have a "serious" talk. Who gives the better advice. Why do you think that is?

I Think You Need To Leave

This question is going to be big for my theory paper so please!! Give me detail.

What has caused you to break up with people? Or what situation can warannt a break-up?

If you don't want to put that detail in e-mail me!! I'll let Lisa know you did.

You Are an Asshole

Does anyone ever find it hard to tell someone about themselves?? Even when we get into fights we're told name-calling is severely out of the question. Don't even go there. But is that a bad idea? If someone is being an asshole or a b***h, should you tell them? And does any good of telling someone something like that?

Get Out Of My Head!!

I wanted to talk about making assumptions. Usually we're not suppose to make them because "When you assume it makes an ass out of you and me" and I'm starting to really understand what that means. I've noticed that with certain people, if nyou decided to just go ahead and do something based off of what you think they want you to do, you end being totally wrong. At times it's no big deal and it doesn't amount to anything, but other times you end up never wanting to speak to that person again. So my questions is: what's the worst "Assumption Story" you have and second, why do you think we assume things in the first place?

Saying Yes (did you mean 'no')

Have you ever been in a situation where you were asked to do something or go somewhere and you really didn't want to do it? Now, did you or did you not do it? Or vice versa. I think we've all been in that type of situation before and we have all handled it differently. If you're the person who's had to do the asking, has that person ever gotten mad at you later for something they decided they wanted to do? Like you should have known that they didn't want to do it?

What's The Deal

I'm starting to think that the primal instincts of human beings are completely getting in the way of life. We focus so much on what our brains are telling us, what our hearts are telling us and most importantly (for some people) what our bodies tell us, we actually forget what the hell to do! We actually bypass the point where making the right decision would have mattered.

Being in love is different for men and women. We think the consequences of falling in love are different. And when we decided to end relationships we expect it to be a certain way. I mean, common ground is sure hard to find nowadays. I mean, I know that we talk and we say what we have to say, but it's always like nothing gets through. Like we're both talking to a brick wall.

Why is it so hard to just do what it takes? If you say you're going to do something, do it! Don't think about it, don't try and figure out what's going to happen afterwards. Don't think. Act? Hello, I mean, if we all spent time thinking we'd get nowhere. We'd do positively nothing with our lives as human beings. It's be mayhem. When did doing the right thing get so hard to do? I'm talking about doing something productive. Something risky. Cause personally, if you're not willing to take a risk everynow and then, you don't deserve whatever it is you want. s

Needing It To Last

Not being able to ask for the things that we want? Why don't we? Is it fear or pride? I used to believe that rejection played a big role in people holding back, but this generation is mostly fearless of everything? Why is the word 'no' haning over our heads??